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10 Tips To Help Her Come

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  1. Take you time, don’t be in a rush. As the saying goes, good things come to those who wait.
  2. Don’t set any expectations. This isn’t a competition.
  3. Communicate, talk to her, ask her what she wants you to do to her. This feedback is essential in knowing exactly what she likes.
  4. Create a nice environment, make sure it’s comfortable and you won’t be disturbed.
  5. Start slowly, don’t just jump straight in. Kisses and cuddles are a good start. Build the excitement using the F word. Foreplay.
  6. Try something other than intercourse, a study of 555 women found that 6% found it easy to come through intercourse alone while 14% came while receiving oral sex.
  7. Encourage her to show you what she likes, make her feel comfortable with touching herself in front of you.
  8. Don’t neglect the clit, whether it’s through oral or manual stimulation don’t forget the clit!
  9. Lube, use it. Wetness is not like an erection. It’s not a guarantee of arousal and some women need a little extra.
  10. Learn patience and self control. Remember on average it takes a women 20 minutes of direct clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm. For the average guy is take 2-5 minutes.

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I'm glad you've found me. My name is Jane and I'm the founding member of the Can't Cum Club! I'm a 26 year old single (and loving it!) female living in New York.

I'm a strident campaigner to educate both women and men about the truth behind the mysterious female orgasm.

For years I believed there was something wrong with me, I couldn't cum. Not even on my own. I became convinced it was my fault and it took it's toll on my relationships.

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