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10 Tips To Help Her Come

10 Tips To Help Her Come

Take you time, don’t be in a rush. As the saying goes, good things come to those who wait.
Don’t set any expectations. This isn’t a competition.
Communicate, talk to her, ask her what she wants you to do to her. This feedback is essential in knowing exactly what she likes.
Create a nice environment, make sure it’s comfortable and you won’t be …

When Is Faking an Orgasm a Good Idea?

When Is Faking an Orgasm a Good Idea?

For some women, faking an orgasm during sex is as close as they can get to experiencing a climax during intercourse. This is because some find it very difficult to reach their peak while with another person, or indeed even alone. However, some women fake an orgasm for a number of different reasons; to get sex over with when they’re not really in the mood, to make their partner feel better if they felt they couldn’t climax this time, or maybe even because they are not attracted to whom they are with, but don’t wish to broach the subject.

Don’t try this at home!

Don’t try this at home!

Owwwwwww. I’m sitting here with my legs crossed just reading this. Last weekend a woman was in hospital after an accident with a homemade sex toy.
The woman was airlifted to hospital after using a sex toy attached to a saber saw blade. Yes you read that correctly, the man who called 911 admitted to attaching the dildo to the saw …

Masturbation: Discover yourself

Masturbation: Discover yourself

People often consider masturbation a taboo subject. Religious groups frown upon it, people in relationships feel guilty even thinking about it, others just sometimes feel ashamed. But when it comes to it, it is a completely natural urge, it provides pleasure to yourself and it helps you to find out what you like and don’t like, thus aiding you in …

Obama Fisting According to Fox News

Obama Fisting According to Fox News

A Fox ‘expert’ on the Obamas love life! This clip had me doubled over and in tears!

The Lucky Ones

The Lucky Ones

It may seem farfetched to imagine, but a surprising amount of women have the ability to reach orgasm or at least a pleasurable release of endorphins that feel similar to orgasm, through stimulation of the breasts alone. While there are no nerves quite like those found in the clitoris, and no area related to a G-spot or female prostrate, the …

The Best Positions for Reaching Orgasm

The Best Positions for Reaching Orgasm

Just about every sex position is good for men and it’s rare for him to have difficulty cuming, so long as it involves penetration into an orifice! For women, especially those that find it hard to cum, finding the right position, one that pushes all the right buttons can be difficult. So here are a few tried and tested positions …

Just what sort of women are you?

Just what sort of women are you?

It is estimated that some 10%-20% of women have never experienced an orgasm and up to 10%-25% of women can only reach orgasm when masturbating. They are some saddening stats when you wonder how many of those women are in marriages or long term relationships.
If you happen to be in the unlucky 20%, a member of the Can’t Cum Club, …

Introductions

Introductions

I guess I should start with some sort of introduction. Well, I’m 26, just about to turn 27. I’m a graphic designer by trade, although you’d never know looking at this blog! I grew up in New York and apart from a year in Europe I’ve spent most of my life here on the Island. I’ve been sexually active since …

Welcome! Who am I?

I'm glad you've found me. My name is Jane and I'm the founding member of the Can't Cum Club! I'm a 26 year old single (and loving it!) female living in New York.

I'm a strident campaigner to educate both women and men about the truth behind the mysterious female orgasm.

For years I believed there was something wrong with me, I couldn't cum. Not even on my own. I became convinced it was my fault and it took it's toll on my relationships.

So this is my story, in the hopes it'll help others learn and ultimately cum for themselves ;)