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The Best Positions for Reaching Orgasm

positionsJust about every sex position is good for men and it’s rare for him to have difficulty cuming, so long as it involves penetration into an orifice! For women, especially those that find it hard to cum, finding the right position, one that pushes all the right buttons can be difficult. So here are a few tried and tested positions where as a women you’ll find it easiest to climax. Integrate these into your lovemaking but be careful not to put undue pressure on yourself that just because this position makes it easier you have to cum!

* Missionary position.
Perhaps one of the oldest positions in the book, man on top, woman on the bottom. This is a good position for women since the natural upward curve of an erect penis will chafe against both her G-spot and clitoris during sex. The man has the advantage for control at this angle, but the women can hold his hips and guide herself as they make love, thus guiding him to rub against the places she wishes and when. Missionary can also be taken with a twist, literally, if you roll onto your side. This allows both of you to control the movements.

* Cowgirl / Reverse Cowgirl.
The former is where the woman sits on top of the man who is lying on his back. From this position, the woman has complete control over the speed, depth and angle. Leaning forward may cause his penis to rub against the clitoris better, whereas leaning back will allow you to concentrate more on your G-spot. This can also be modified by squatting on his penis rather than sitting on him. Bouncing this way can feel ultra-sensual and provide more leverage. Reverse cowgirl is of course the same, but the woman faces the man’s feet. This may not be as effective for clitoral stimulation, but the pressure of the penis inside you from this angle will stimulate the G-spot well.

* Against a wall.
Standing face to face, the woman leans her back against the wall with the man against her. Her leg must come up and around his waist to provide him access. This leaves the man mainly in control, to thrust against her, but it does provide a good method of friction! Of course, against a wall doesn’t need be as far as it goes – you can take it to the stair case, the bathroom, the kitchen counters…!

* Spooning.
The man enters the woman from behind as she lays in front of him either against the contours of his body or curved over so he can gain better access. This position, especially with your legs pressed together can increase friction on both the clit and g-spot. It also leaves the mans hand’s free if you require an extra set of hands.

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  • aryawan says:

    Jane according to my experience with my wife the most important thing is erection quality. The man penis must hard as steel and then the second is our foreplay quality. If the vagina has wet and the vulva was open anything position can make our lady fly.

    Last but not least is woman machine is in her brain not in her vagina so emotion, environmental and condition before having sex are recorded and being involved on woman playing.

    So has a great orgasm lady.

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I'm glad you've found me. My name is Jane and I'm the founding member of the Can't Cum Club! I'm a 26 year old single (and loving it!) female living in New York.

I'm a strident campaigner to educate both women and men about the truth behind the mysterious female orgasm.

For years I believed there was something wrong with me, I couldn't cum. Not even on my own. I became convinced it was my fault and it took it's toll on my relationships.

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